Black women leaders are working to transform the very systems that marginalize us based on race and gender. The exhaustion comes from carrying heavy workloads combined with enduring the very conditions we are trying to change.
The factors contributing to these heavy loads are well-documented. Black women-led organizations receive less than 0.5% of foundation giving, creating chronic under-resourcing that compounds over time. More than half of Black-led nonprofit leaders have faced pressure from funders to soften or remove race-explicit language from their work, even as race remains foundational to their missions and the issues they seek to address. Through experience, I’ve also noticed that many Black women executive directors have either founded, or inherited in their infancy, the nonprofits they lead. They are building organizations without a blueprint. Understanding what it takes to lead in this environment requires a willingness to reckon honestly with what we have built and what that work has cost us.
Navigating relationship and isolation: the invisible dimensions of leadership
Leadership within social justice movements requires continuous relationship and trust building with community members, staff, funders, board members, partners, and others. All these groups carry unique expectations and histories.
History has also shaped this country’s expectations that Black women will provide care, comfort, and emotional labor for others while ignoring our own needs. That history, from forced caregiving to enduring stereotypes of Black women as selfless caretakers, still influences leadership expectations today. Staff, supporters, funders, and others may expect Black women executive directors to lead while providing a kind of motherly care for all, something they likely do not expect of others in similar roles.
Yet despite the constant relational demand, executive director roles within social justice movements are profoundly isolating. Leaders accountable to multiple groups often lack peer support. Because these leaders are from the very communities enduring systemic harm, that isolation is personal.
The compounding financial strain, identity erasure, and isolation are part of the structural environment in which movement leadership happens.
Building a foundation of support
When I joined RWJF, I carried the memory of how it felt to navigate leadership alone without a net while the load became too heavy. To support leaders like me, I wanted to build something intentional for those who came next.
In 2025, I brought that vision to life with the launch of the Black Women’s Executive Directors (BWED) Program, created for women who, like me, answered the call to lead. Co-led by BOLD Training Institute and re:power, the program supports 10 Black women executive directors of social and racial justice organizations through sustained general operating support, leadership development, peer connection, and wellness resources; ultimately, in service of healthy and equitable communities.
Over the past year, I have proudly watched the inaugural BWED cohort building the type of community I needed as an executive director. These leaders are recommending funders to one another, collaborating across organizations, and exchanging strategies that strengthen their work collectively. The camaraderie generates an abundance mindset that counters scarcity-driven norms the philanthropic sector enforces.
While this doesn’t eliminate structural challenges, it provides a relational infrastructure that sustains Black women leaders and their work. Inclusive leadership requires precisely these kinds of sustained, generous, trust-based relationships.
What philanthropy must do
Sustainable leadership entails building relationships, sharing responsibility, and learning collectively. Funders must listen intently to Black women and other movement leaders and invest in spaces where these leaders can learn from and support one another. This makes the work sustainable and the people doing it more effective.